Honestly, I like some of the offtopic immaturity here, it's what makes it feel personal and friendly. When you see some out of nowhere post that makes you laugh, then people start a page and a half about that is where it goes overboard.
I don't think we need referrals and penalizations, people need to just know when enough is enough. Generally someone will post saying so, and get back on topic themselves.
Also, bitching about spam and such is why I left before, please don't make me leave again...
Number 3: everyone make out
How 'bout a nice handshake and a pleasant 'good day to you'?